Tuesday, January 4, 2011

"Sweetheart", "Be Mine", "Forever"


Thursday, December 30, 2010 Carmund and I went to have drinks with friends, The Riddicks, at The Capital Grille Restaurant around 6pm. There was much fun and laughter and great food (if you're ever there get the calamari--DELICIOUS!). Chris and Lauren had to leave because they had dinner reservations elsewhere so that left me and Carmund to go walk to the US Capitol building (as we did around the same time the year before). As we leave the restaurant and head towards the Capitol, Carmund hands me a sweet little heartshaped rock that has "Sweetheart" engraved on it. I gladly accepted it, placed it in my coat pocket, and thanked him without thinking much else about it. He gives me little things all the time so nothing out of the ordinary. We're walking and talking and again he hands me another rock that says "Be Mine". A big kiss for him and into the same pocket it goes. Our conversation continues and we're reminiscing on the same walk we made a year ago to the steps of the Capitol. The weather was so lovely. It was dark out but the moon was shining, the sky was clear, and it was just a nice stroll. We finally made it to the steps of the Capitol. This big beautiful building is right behind us and in front is a big Christmas tree on the lawn, the mall, the Washington Monument, and the Lincoln Memorial peeking from behind. Carmund and I admired the scenery and talked about the distance between the two monuments. He reached into his pocket...AGAIN...and hands me another rock that says "Forever". I kind of wondered if he was going to propose right then but dismissed the thought rather quickly. Only a few seconds later he reaches back into his pocket (I'm thinking he's about to give me another rock) but instead he places in my hand a ring box. Tears immediately start to roll down my face. I look at Carmund and the first thing out of my mouth is, "Are you serious?" LOL I know, I know! Anyway, I see Carmund smile as he gets down on one knee. He looks up at me and with a smile says, "Well, there isn't much else to say but will you marry me?" I cried and cried and tried to nod my head "yes" but somehow I guess got lost in translation (apparently I didn't move at all). I finally say YES so he stood up and opened the box. I was excited to see such a perfect ring for me. He puts it on my finger and the rest is history!! We then go have an engagement dinner at Eatonville with Carmund's mom, sister, godfather, dad, and stepmom. It was a perfect way to end 2010 and start 2011.

On June 5, 2011 I will marry the man of my dreams. You don't get any better than that! That's just the way it is...

Also, check out our wedding website here.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

The Silencer


Most of you who know me know that I'm silly, sarcastic, and very honest. Lately it seems that my honesty has been getting me in trouble.

Why is it that most people can say some of the dumbest things that don't make sense and not feel as if what they said was unnecessary?! That's amazing to me. One of my colleagues and I was just talking about how we wished some people could record their conversations and then play it back. Maybe, just maybe, they would realize that their not making sense or just asking dumb questions.

That's not what this blog is really about. I'm just extremely annoyed with the fact that some people can't handle the truth--regardless of how it was said to them. The truth really does hurt. For the past couple of days at work there have been a person or two that haven't been a big fan of me for this reason. It bothers me even more that they would rather walk in ignorance versus knowing what's right. I'd like to think that when someone asks me what I think about something that they are wanting the truth.

You can try to silence me but you really can't. Yes, I'm pissed and irritated and annoyed. This blog is one place no one can try to shut me out or up. Maybe I have some things I need to deal with but guess what I'm going to say what I think and KNOW is right and you'll just have to deal with it. You know the motto--that's just the way it is!

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Half empty or half full? That is the question.


It's been quite some time since I've last blogged. What can I say? I've been a busy, busy girl. "What have you been doing?" Well, I'm glad you asked. Here's a brief list of my goings on...weddings, Carmund, work, church, Carmund, weddings, Carmund, family, Carmund, work, paying bills, work, church, Carmund and the list goes on and on and on!

As you can see Carmund is quite prominent on that list. :-) I'm so happy to say that we've been together now for a year and a half...and counting!! The glass is definitely NOT half empty!! It's filling up but as it continues to fill the glass also grows. Yes, I am that glass that just keeps growing as we continue to develop our relationship.

I'm so blessed and so happy to have Carmund Theodore White, Jr. in my life! That's just the way it is...

"When I look into his eyes, it seems all the problems in the world go away and I'm floating in mid-air." -Unknown